Why need someone..

We have been talking to a lot of people from a number of years, but still somethings are left to be said to some one..the purpose of this communication is not to convey information or just to share with but its purpose is to say “I am here and I know that you are here..right here now and then and always”

Its for the need of to be needed….
If no one needs you then for what good are you ????

People like employers, students, readers may say that they need you but in this relations you are replaceable but to that someone your are not replaceable at any price. That gives you the self esteem to meet the world.

Sometimes you need to be held and patted…
But if that time is gone then ????

Life is moving at such a speed that one never knows what gona happen just in this time. It is not always that life is giving the opportunity of relations again and again..so do think why you need someone and why you are needed by someone..

Process Flow..PFD..

The header of the Blog is A Blog About Anything, Everything…
Lets put some posts to add anything..
Here is a PFD..Process Flow Diagram..

My pleasure

“Let me be the one you call If you jump..
I will break your fall, lift you up and fly away with you into the night..
If you need to fall apart, I can mend a broken heart..
If you need to crash, then crash and burn, you’re not alone”
stay blessed…

Personal Perception….

Different people have different perception. One man’s meat could be another man’s poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home,a boy commented, “Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?”Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, “The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?” Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.

Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, “How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.”
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, “Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you.” Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.

It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river.

You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.

Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..somewhat this has been truth around me..with me..
Got speechless..nothing to say..how could I be..this question was somewhere got errupted in my mind..i got the answer from someone..”when u r doing patiently with consistency..lot will be said..positive..negative..but only you know what u did”..so i got the reply..no I can not be..

Be Patient….

This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy’s hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.

Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy’s hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, ” Daddy,I’m sorry about your truck.” Then he asked, “but when are my fingers going to grow back?”

The father went home & committed suicide.

Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can’t. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.

People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

Everything Possible….

Hi writing a post after a long break again..
Everyone and everything including me is so preoccupied that sometimes it pushes to think what we are doing..for what we are doing..but still continuing..
Everything is possible….the story of a person made me to write this very post..
A guy was preparing for IAS exams the toughest one in rank. Imagine that guy was partially blind means not able to see in a direct/ straight direction. He used to read the books by tilting his eyes and using magnifying glass. He used to read louder to record his voice and then used to listen those cassettes again and again, a number of times. Appeared for exams cleared the exam but in interview he was disqualified in first attempt. But did not give up..appeared for the second time again cleared the exam and again at the time of interview..which proved to be fatal point for him..he was asked the question that how he could be able to manage and do his work as he is blind. And the answer he put in front of the Panel made all of them speechless.
He said, “Gentlemen, I am blind from my eyes but i am not blind otherwise..”
He said, “Main aankhon se andha hun, vaise andha nahi hun..”
He got selected in the interview.
Yes, it is there some people have the eyes but still they are worst than blinds. They see around but they do not see even seeing all. “Dekh ke bi nahi dekhte”
That guy was right he was not blind. But the people who do not see even seeing into everything they are in fact blind, so called. These people do not use the god gifted five senses.
Really,,pity for these BLINDS..may god give them a broad vision to see everything in real..

Jealous…read this and go ahead

To be very honest and true to myself..i was trying to find why i am feeling jealous of something..someone..was not able to find the reason…i was feeling as being jealous i am committing some crime..doing something very wrong but unintentionally.. I literally don’t want to be jealous but me had not able to free myself from the grip of this feel…and as It is said that jealousy is nothing but a fear of abandonment, a feeling of Insecurity..then read some stuff..searched on web..and then was little relieved….after working on this feel as well as on myself…and here some stuff for all..

Jealousy….Worst Side
Shakespeare said “O! beware, my lord, of jealousy; It is the green-eyed monster which doth mock
The meat it feeds on”

Forbes said “Jealousy… is a mental cancer.”

Envy slays itself by its own arrows.

Envy is ignorance.

Jealousy….Little Soft Side
“Jealousy is that pain which one feels from the apprehension that he/she is not equally given
by the person for whom he/she is ready to give entirely everything anytime”

It is not love that is blind, but jealousy.

If envy were a fever, all the world would be ill.

Jealousy….Positive Side
Jealousy and love are sisters.

Jealousy is simply and clearly the fear that you do not have value.
Jealousy scans for evidence to prove the point – that others will be preferred and rewarded more than you. There is only one alternative – self-value. If you cannot love yourself, you will not believe that you are loved. You will always think it’s a mistake or luck. Take your eyes off others and turn the scanner within. Find the seeds of your jealousy, clear the old voices and experiences.
Put all the energy into building your personal and emotional security. Then you will be the one others envy, and you can remember the pain and reach out to them.

Go ahead but be careful…excess of everything is bad..
Jealousy in romance is like salt in food.
A little can enhance the savor, but too much can spoil the pleasure and, under certain circumstances,
can be life-threatening.

so….peep into your heart….and now b true if u r jealous or not..

“Pyar aur Waqat….Love and Time….”

“pyar waqat se nahi…usse kiya jata hai jiske saath waqat bitaya jaye…..”
“Love is not done with time..but with the person with whom time is being spent….”
Few word only but say a lot..Look for that one with whom you spent your time…
Don’t keep sticking to the past..Past has made your present and your present gona make your future..
so live in your present..Have a break from everything..spend few minutes with yourself..
see around you..with whom you are spending your time..nd that who has also spent time with you…
may be Time is need of your Time

Sub Concious….power..

Does the sub conscious mind works more than the conscious mind..
Yes it does..
Writing something experienced..getting little bit personal
“Last night was thinking about something very intently..like anything..means no eating..no
sleeping..only the thoughts surrounding..nd whn the sleep was thr dnt know..but may be the sub concious mind was working some where..nd all the thoughts took live shape and turned into dream..everything was so clear..the sub concious mind was working faster than the concious one..Once i happen to know that if the desire is so intent then by the sub concious mind the person can be present at a different place even being present at the same time at a different place..really felt that it must be true..”
Means the mind works even sub conciously..we have the power to do anything even impossible what is required is the intention…rather intent desire..may be the desire which is intent but latent..not known to anyone..anyhow whatever it is..but the true intention draws all the pictures in reality..
Lets c today what is drawn..bcoz still there is ???????…..no answers..

Far and Near….

Yesterday watching a daily soap a line appeared so true to me “People do not think about the things, persons which are placed near to them but they always think and long for the things, persons which are far from them”
Quite true..watch yourself..it is there with all of us..
We never really think about what is near to us…Y so..May be because with the time they are taken as granted to us..nd granted are granted only not to be thought about their needs, it is the trend. I personally feel that sometimes we have not been able to give what is due for are nears..reason may be any..”if we need to eat, sleep, pray to live then we are also in need of those nears to live but we do eat, sleep, pray and do all the things which we are required for our living but what about those nears..sometimes once in a while we bring near those nears..but are not able to hear some unsaid words of those nears” thats why we are so called “Human”..may be without any humour we are living..
“Those nears also need to be nourished by the time and with the time..otherwise they will fade..really they will fade..and by the time disappear”
Take care of your nears also..they are also in need of your time..the time spent in longing for the fars must be given to the nears to bring them more near!!…May be its my presonal assumption only but i do think so.