Jealous…read this and go ahead
July 6, 2008
To be very honest and true to myself..i was trying to find why i am feeling jealous of something..someone..was not able to find the reason…i was feeling as being jealous i am committing some crime..doing something very wrong but unintentionally.. I literally don’t want to be jealous but me had not able to free myself from the grip of this feel…and as It is said that jealousy is nothing but a fear of abandonment, a feeling of Insecurity..then read some stuff..searched on web..and then was little relieved….after working on this feel as well as on myself…and here some stuff for all..
Jealousy….Worst Side
Shakespeare said “O! beware, my lord, of jealousy; It is the green-eyed monster which doth mock
The meat it feeds on”
Forbes said “Jealousy… is a mental cancer.”
Envy slays itself by its own arrows.
Envy is ignorance.
Jealousy….Little Soft Side
“Jealousy is that pain which one feels from the apprehension that he/she is not equally given
by the person for whom he/she is ready to give entirely everything anytime”
It is not love that is blind, but jealousy.
If envy were a fever, all the world would be ill.
Jealousy….Positive Side
Jealousy and love are sisters.
Jealousy is simply and clearly the fear that you do not have value.
Jealousy scans for evidence to prove the point – that others will be preferred and rewarded more than you. There is only one alternative – self-value. If you cannot love yourself, you will not believe that you are loved. You will always think it’s a mistake or luck. Take your eyes off others and turn the scanner within. Find the seeds of your jealousy, clear the old voices and experiences.
Put all the energy into building your personal and emotional security. Then you will be the one others envy, and you can remember the pain and reach out to them.
Go ahead but be careful…excess of everything is bad..
Jealousy in romance is like salt in food.
A little can enhance the savor, but too much can spoil the pleasure and, under certain circumstances,
can be life-threatening.
so….peep into your heart….and now b true if u r jealous or not..