Anger…..make it righteous

Anyone can become angry..that is easy but.. “To be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose and in the right way”..this is not easy.
Whate’er’ begun in anger; ends in shame….
Beware of fury of a patient person….
Anger is Momentary Insanity…
Is your anger crushing someone else’s hopes from you..then what u have become..Look inside..Its giving pains to that someone..Man is the only animal who nevers shows what is there in its heart..
Look around you see the nature..see the beautiful flowers..see the flying and playing birds..see the life in them..see the smile of your near ones..One smile from your near ones and one tear in front of near ones can calm you..And u only are to shed off the anger inside YOU…

Expectations……

Good to listen..heavy sounding..carrying a lot of weight with it. Bcoz expectations make our life.Our happiness and pains in the whole life revolve round these expectations. One from whom something is expected must feel proud and do the best to fullfill each of those expectations.
And if the expectations are not fullfilled then one is torn into pieces..burst into tears..burns in anger.When one is having expectation from a very close person and its broken then faith shatters. Now being little personal..recently i faced somehing that made me to halt there only because a silent expectation was broken. I do have expectations but very small. And the result is…a long queue of tearing questions in front of me..and no answers..me still standing at the same turn looking for my answers..looking for myself.
Even after shattering of all expectations one again starts to have same WHY?????… it may be human nature….may be to live…but me not able to find answers to my questions..But i really wish from deep inside of my heart that may Almighty gives me the strength to fullfill all the expectations which others are having from me nd to bear………..(dont know what to say it can be felt only) if the expectations which i have are broken….in the Last but not the least read the next line…
“A very little is needed to make life Happy..small small little little Expectations..Try to fullfill those”

Smiles……hiding tears…

Smile is complete when the eyes smile with smile on lips, the heart smiles and one feels the warmth of smile. It is one side.
And other side, Smile on lips..tears in eyes..hiding those tears..putting fake smiles..this creats a distance of MILE in these two “S” of “S….MILE…..S”. Nobody to lessen that distance,
nobody to count those tears hidden behind smiles.
Then somebody comes..looks into your eyes..counts your tears..wipes them off..feels your smiles..Hey hold on..could you do the same..
Could you feel that person’s smile and wipe tears. Come out of yourself. Spend sometime for that who has seen deep inside you..Give up yourself to that person. Your complete giving up to that person will cover that distance and will change it into big “SMILES”…..
Now…get up hold that buddy…..and SMILEEEEE….

Silence speaks….and understood

Oh really..does it really happens. Does the silence speak???? Yes, silence speaks. Your silence speaks, my silence speaks.
Everybody’s silence speaks. Now what is needed is the person who listens and understands this silence. Do you find yourself able to understand this silence. Your silence speaks definitely..but do you understand other’s silence. Sometimes one is busy with one’s happiness all around..sometimes with agonies surrounding..sometimes with anger inside..then in this time the other’s silence is ignored intentionally or unintentionally. But may be the other one who is silent has understood your silence each and every time. And if in you being busy with yourself the time drags that person away from you then…..the other one who is not saying anything may not be able to say anything because you are busy with your immotions only. But the time moves on. The one not able to say you anything by feeling your happiness, your agonies, your anger, your love may move away slowly..

Time is precious. The god gives chance to everyone to identify that moment when the person who thinks your are the most
important..whose every minute is attached with you..whose thinking moves around you..is near to you..then hold that person in your arms at the same moment..don’t let that one go away from you..otherwise time will drag that one away from you and you will be left empty handed..because you never know “KAL HO NA HO“…..read this lovely lines from one of my most favourite songs..
“Chahe jo tumhe pure dil se, milta hai vo mushkil se
Aisa koi jo kahin hai, bas vo hi sabse haseen hai
Us haath ko tum thaam lo..vo mehrbaan KAL HO NA HO..”

So listen to the silence..understand it..may be somebody is saying something to u….catch it up…

Oath of God & Love….

This is an oath of God & Love..bcause Love is God and God is Love. Nothing more i could say. But these lines will say a lot.

In Hindi….
mere raaste pe chal ke to dekh,
tere saare raaste na khol dun to kehna
mere liye kharch kar ke to dekh,
tere liye kuber ke khazane na khol dun to kehna
mere liye kathor vachan sun kar to dekh
kripa na barse to kehna
meri taraf aa kar to dekh
tera dhayan na rakhu to kehna
meri baatein logon se kar ke to dekh
tujhe amulaya na bana dun to kehna
muje apna madadgaar bana kar to dekh
tuje sabki gulami se na chuda dun to kehna
savayam ko muje saunp kar to dekh
tuje mashoor na kar dun to kehna
tu mera ban kar to dekh
har ek ko tera na bana dun to kehna

In English….

Keep your feet on my path,
If I do not open all your paths then U say…..
Spend some money for me,
If I do not open the treasures for U then U say….
Bear some harsh words for me,
If all the blessing do not come your way then U say….
Step towards me,
If I do not take care of U then U say….
Admire me in ur people,
If I do not make U valuable then U say….
Make me your Helper,
If I do not make U free from every slavery then U say….
Give urself to me,
If I do not give U fame then U say….
U BE MINE,
If I do not make everybody of U for U then U say….

When u love somebody it is the oath to be had there for your love. This is the oath by God because that almighty loves everybody.